Get Your FREE Full-Length Audio of
"
How to Work When, Where and How You Want"

Quit your job and find work you love with Valerie Young.
 
 

Enjoyed by 23,000+ people!

Privacy Policy: We will never sell, rent or trade your email. Period.

Click here to return to the Changing Course home page

live life on purpose work at what you love follow your own road

    Next Issue Archives Previous Issue

    Changing Course Newsletter: Issue 25

    Date: Aug 13, 2001
    Subject: Changing Course Newsletter: Issue 25

    Changing Course Newsletter
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    ~~~~
    Issue 25 - August 13, 2001
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


    Brought to you by Changing Course
    http://www.ChangingCourse.com Dedicated to helping you:
    ~ Live Life on Purpose
    ~ Work at What You Love
    ~ Follow Your Own Road


    Barbara Sher, author of "I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What It
    Was," calls Changing Course "wonderful, inspired and informative."


    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    QUOTE FOR THE DAY
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


    When I dare to be powerful, to use my strength in the service of my
    vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.

    ~ Audre Lorde


    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    FEATURED ARTICLE: The Freelancer Within
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Sharon Davis

    Every day, I'll get an e-mail that goes something like this: "I've been
    looking for a home-based job for x number of months now... with no
    luck. I just want something I can do in the evenings or on weekends so I
    can supplement my income. Can you help me?"

    You might be thinking, "Yeah, I'd like that too... can you help?"

    Well, I just might, though my suggestion might not be exactly what you
    had in mind.

    A lot of the people who e-mail me have marketable skills. Skills like
    typing, word processing, accounting, human resources, transcription...
    the list goes on. Here you are working all day long, then spending all
    this time searching for that ever elusive telecommuting job. Well, there
    may be another option - freelancing.

    You might say, "Me? A freelancer? I don't think so. I don't have the
    time to go out drumming up business."

    I say, "Oh, but you do!" Among all the other nifty conveniences the
    Internet has given us (finally, a place where I can get garden gnomes
    24 hours a day!), there are now "Freelance Marketplaces." These are
    sites that enable the freelancer and the employers who need freelancers
    to hook up.

    Most of these sites work something like this:

    ABC, inc. is a relatively small company that doesn't have a Human
    Resources department (or Accounting department or Transcription
    department). Rather than take on the expense of creating an in-house HR
    department, they want to contract out their HR related projects. They go
    to a Freelance Marketplace, post their projects and then wait for the
    bids to roll in.

    This is where you, being the consummate Human Resources Professional (or
    Accounting Professional or Transcriptionist), will go and post your bid
    for the project.. and voila! You're a freelancer.

    Some sites that offer this type of service are http://www.elance.com and
    http://www.ants.com While registration at both sites is free, Ants.com
    charges a fee of 5% for all jobs completed by you. eLance.com is
    currently offering their services for free during the Beta period, but
    it is clear that this will change at some point. At eLance.com,
    freelancers (or e-lancers as they are called) can leave feedback
    regarding project posters. This is a handy feature that can help you to
    decide who you want to do business with.

    The beauty of being a freelancer is that you can often do your work on a
    part-time basis - at your convenience. The bottom line is that you will
    typically have a deadline to meet, but when you do, the work is flexible
    according to your own schedule. Another benefit to this is that as you
    build your clientele and your reputation as a freelancer, you may find
    that you have enough business to freelance full-time.

    Sharon Davis is the Mother of two girls, the owner of
    http://www.2Work-At-Home.com and the Editor of that site's monthly
    ezine, America's Home. In her spare time she reminisces about what it
    was like to have spare time!

    [For more information on Elance.com as well as other resources for
    freelancers check out http//www.ChangingCourse.com/resources.htm


    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    INSPIRATION TO FOLLOW YOUR BLISS
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    The principles you live by create the world you live in; if you change
    the principles you live by, you will change your world.
    ~ Blaine Lee

    We are like violins. We can be used for doorstops or we can make music.
    ~ Barbara Sher

    Every exit is an entry somewhere.
    ~ Tom Stoppard


    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    IN THE LIVE YOUR DREAM STORE
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Find lots of great products to help you Live Your Dreams at the Changing Course Store at http//www.changingcourse.com


    ROAD MAP FOR YOUR DREAMS Valerie's booklet, 10 Steps to Escaping the
    Job World and Creating the Life You Really Want may be just what you
    need to put you on the track to a richer more rewarding work/life. Even
    if you don't order a darned thing, I invite you to read Step One of the
    10 steps at http//www.ChangingCourse.com/articles/



    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    VAL'S PICKS AND PONDERINGS
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Part I: This week I have two picks for you...

    STARTING YOUR OWN WEB BUSINESS: Have you been thinking about starting
    your own web-based business? Do you already do business on-line but need
    help taking your company to the next level?

    I launched ChangingCourse.com about four years ago now. At the time, I
    knew about marketing in general but not how to make a web site
    successful. So for those first three years there was much trial and
    error. I had some successes but I also made a lot of costly errors.

    That is until I signed up to be a member of a web marketing consulting
    site. Membership will run you anywhere from $167 to $299. The reason I
    can't give you an exact fee is that from time-to-time the site runs
    special time-limited offers. If you are seriously thinking of starting
    an online business - or want to make your current site more profitable -
    I think the service is a good value for the money. And don't worry if
    you don't yet know what kind of business you want to start. The site can
    help you there as well.

    One of the biggest dollar for dollar benefits is the personal
    consulting. As a member you are entitled to a free written analysis of
    your web site or your marketing campaign. The feedback I received was
    excellent. They spotted things that I had never noticed. I am not
    exaggerating when I tell you that once I put the recommended changes in
    place, the results were immediate.

    Another plus was that I no longer had to re-invent the wheel. Because
    the site offers so much constantly updated information, you'll save lots
    of time otherwise spent trying to research Internet marketing techniques
    and tools on your own.

    Two more pluses: These people have been around for a while and offer a
    100% Risk-Free 90-day money back guarantee. (If you aren't yet ready to
    launch your business, I suggest that you wait until you are. That way
    you'll have a chance to actually use the service and if you are not
    satisfied, can take advantage of the 90 day guarantee.)

    This and other helpful links and resources (including a special offer
    for Changing Course visitors to save 15% on web site design from the
    wonderful designer who created both of my sites) can be found at
    http//www.ChangingCourse.com/resources.htm


    HEALTH INSURANCE TAX DEDUCTION FOR THE SELF-EMPLOYED: A lot of people
    stay stuck in jobs they don't enjoy because they cannot afford to pay
    out of pocket for health insurance. There's no getting around the high
    price of health insurance. But, at least there is some good news on the
    tax front.

    Did you know that if you had been self-employed this year you could have
    deducted 60% of the amount paid during 2000 for medical insurance and
    qualified long-term care insurance for yourself and your family? And the
    deduction increases after 2001. For tax years beginning in 2002, the
    deductible percentage of your health insurance premiums gradually
    increases to 70%. Here is the best news of all. After 2002 you will be
    able to deduct a full 100% of premiums paid!

    Get it from the horses mouth at the IRS's page outlining health care
    deductions for the self-employed at
    http://www.irs.gov/prod/forms_pubs/pubs/p5350701.htm

    If you want to get an idea of what it might cost you to get health
    insurance, or if you are shopping around for a lower priced plan, go to
    http//www.ChangingCourse.com/resources.htm There you'll find a great
    site to help you compare the price of health insurance and even apply
    for coverage. If you are not prone to illness the experts suggest you
    consider a higher deductible in exchange for paying lower premiums. If
    after shopping around you are discouraged by the costs, don't forget
    to factor in the tax deduction!


    Part 2: Now for a bit of pondering on the importance of attitude.

    You've heard the expression that some people see the glass as half full
    while others perceive the same glass to be half empty? Yesterday I had
    the opportunity to see this difference in perception in action.

    My father and I drove to the airport to pick up my some family members
    visiting from Florida. It was 100 degrees and muggy. "Knowing" there
    wouldn't be any parking spaces close to the terminal my father was
    inclined to head directly to the back lot where we'd be sure to find a
    space.

    I, on the other hand, was inclined to start with the row closest to the
    terminal and work my way back. Since my father was literally in the
    driver's seat, he reluctantly agreed to check out the last row in the
    front lot. If we didn't find something there, he said, we'd proceed
    directly to the back lot. Not only did we find a spot, but on the way to
    the terminal we passed a prime front row space. His response? "It
    probably wouldn't have been there when we were looking."

    In other words, I prefer to think that things will work out. My Dad
    presumes they will not. Not surprising, during his adult life my father
    held two jobs. He was horribly exploited in his first job and left only
    at my mother's constant urging. He stayed at his second job for over 30
    years. In part, father's long job tenure has to do with that fact that
    he is a product of at time when there was a different set of rules
    regarding employer-employee loyalty. You got a good (or even a not so
    good) job and you stuck with it for life.

    There is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with staying in the same job or town
    or anything else for an extended period of time. My mother's family has
    lived in this same area of Massachusetts since the 1600s. My father's
    family came at the turn of the last century. I love it here in what is
    known as the Pioneer Valley and despite feeling tremendous pressure
    after graduating from college to go somewhere new, I have never had any
    desire to move anyplace else on a permanent basis.

    When staying in one job or place too long IS cause for concern though,
    is when it is not driven by a sense of contentment but by the belief
    that things will not work out anyway, so why bother. A lousy attitude
    will kill a dream faster than just about anything else.

    If you find yourself automatically driving to the back lot of life,
    maybe it's time to do an attitude check:

    Do you see yourself as deserving of happiness?

    Do you think things will probably work out for the best and if they
    don't, do you see that as an opportunity to try again?

    Do you see yourself as the director of your life or as a bit player
    operating from someone else's script?

    Do you think that life generally has it out for you and therefore it is
    hopeless to even try to change your life? Or do you see life as Helen
    Keller once described it as being, "an exciting adventure or nothing at
    all"?

    Pessimists THINK a lot about changing course; unfortunately those with a
    negative attitude rarely ever act on their dreams. If you are prone to
    pessimism but really DO want to go after your dream of a more meaningful
    work/life, you may need to first practice viewing things from a positive
    perspective.

    Moving from a pessimistic, hopeless view to an optimistic, hopeful one
    will not happen over night. It is a goal that must be worked on one day
    at a time. Start by taking one situation each day and trying to reframe
    it from a glass half-full perspective. Fake it if you have to. After a
    while you will find yourself readily being able to not only see the
    glass of life as half full, but enjoying a long, quenching drink from it
    as well.

    When it comes to successfully changing course, attitude really is
    everything. That's because as Henry Ford once put it, "If you think you
    can or if you think you can't, you're right."

    Valerie Young
    Dreamer-in-Residence
    ChangingCourse.com ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~