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Issue 129

November 23, 2005

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Changing Course is dedicated to helping you:

~Live Life on Purpose
~Work at What You Love
~Follow Your Own Road

Inside Today's Issue

Featured Article

The Ultimate Decision: Your Money or Your Life

Featured Resource

Books on Simplicity, Abundance, and Money Matters

Bonus Article

5 Tips To Gain A Winning Advantage In Life

Holiday Gift Guide

Resources for A Change

Often people attempt to live their lives backwards; they try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want so they will be happier. The way it actually works is the reverse. You must first be who you really are, then, do what you need to do, in order to have what you want. ~ Margaret Young

The Ultimate Decision: Your Money or Your Life

By Valerie YoungValerie and her dog, Cokie

In their thought-provoking bestseller, Your Money Or Your Life, authors Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin lay out their nine-step plan to help readers achieve "financial independence." The quest for financial independence should not be confused with becoming independently wealthy. Instead, being financially independent means "having an income sufficient for your basic needs and comforts from a source other than paid employment." Central to creating a more fulfilling life independent of paid employment is the recognition of the price we pay for the money we earn.

The Trade Off

This cost is described by the authors in terms of "life energy," meaning, the precious and limited time each of us has here on this earth. When you go to work each day, you are, in essence, trading your life energy for money. The popular pitch "buy now, pay later" takes on new meaning when you start to really assess the price of spending so much of your life energy earning money so you can buy more things. "If you spend your life energy on stuff that brings only passing fulfillment and doesn't support your values," the authors point out, "you end up with less life." 

Your Money or Your Life is based on Joe and Vicki's popular seminar "Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Achieving Financial Independence" and the authors offer themselves as living proof that the program works. In 1969 at age 31, Joe retired from his job on Wall Street "never again to accept money for any of his work." Vicki met Joe that same year and began applying his financial principles which allowed them both to serve as full-time volunteers working with various community service projects in sync with their values.

Vicki later founded the New Road Map Foundation, a non-profit charitable and educational foundation and began to lecture widely on the topic of financial independence. Like Joe, she receives no compensation for her speaking engagements. In fact, the New Road Foundation is staffed entirely by volunteers, none of whom receive any salaries, royalties, honorariums or personal expenses — including Joe and Vicki. Instead, all proceeds are donated to causes that reflect the authors' values.

The Steps to FreedomYour Money or Your Life

You're probably wondering how these two pay the bills without a paycheck. The answer, they'll tell you, lies in following nine steps. To give you a general idea of how the program works, step two asks you to add up all the time and money that goes into having a job: buying work clothes, getting ready for work, commuting, hiring others to do things you have no time to do, as well as the things you do to help decompress from work like escape entertainment, vacations, dining out and so on. It can be a rude awakening to learn for example, that when you calculate the time and money required to maintain your job, high hourly earnings can easily translate to something closer to minimum wage.

Applying the first seven steps of the program for a few months puts you in a position to fairly accurately project how much time it will take before you reach what is called the "crossover point." Your crossover point is the point in time at which you can expect be financially independent. Of this time Joe and Vicki write: "Take a minute to think about what would happen if you knew that you would have to work for money for a limited, foreseeable length of time (say five years) instead of that vague limbo of working until traditional retirement... For people who are highly motivated to leave paid employment in order to follow another dream, the ‘finite period of time' is like the lure of the stables to a horse heading home after a long ride. The homing instinct takes over and you fly toward the goal."

If you've been dreaming of a way to get off the earn-more-to-buy-more treadmill so you can spend your "life energy" on the things that matter most, Your Money or Your Life may be just the wake-up call you need.

About the Author

Off the beaten path career counselor, Valerie Young, abandoned her corporate cubicle to become the Dreamer in Residence atChangingCourse.com, offering free resources to help you discover your life mission and live it. An expert on the Imposter Syndrome, she's presented her How to Feel as Bright and Capable as Everyone Seems to Think You Are program to over 30,000 people.

Find more articles written by Valerie atChangingCourse.com/articles/

If you don't risk anything, you risk even more. ~ Erica Jong

Featured Resource

Books on Simplicity, Abundance, and Money Matters

    Practical Dreamer's Handbook   Your Money or Your Life   Getting Life   Keeping Life Simple 
 Choosing Simplicity   Living More With Less 
 Simplicity LessonsAcres of DiamondsOpen Your Mind to Prosperity  
 The Social Meaning of MoneyThink & Grow RichThe Secret Life of Money  Law of Attraction

A dream is your creative vision for your life in the future. You must break out of your current comfort zone and become comfortable with the unfamiliar and the unknown.
~ Denis Waitley

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Guest Article

5 Tips to Gain A Winning Advantage In Life

By Chris Green

Do you wish you could live your dream life? Here are 5 top tips to help turn your dream into reality…

1. Invest in your dream.

This will mean investing time to develop the necessary skills and investing money to develop skills - equipment, books, courses, seminars - to take you closer to your goals. These are investments in yourself – in your dream and are never wasted. My best friend is currently studying to be a commercial pilot. The process will cost him around FIFTY THOUSAND dollars. Some investment. His response: "I'm worth it." Are you?

2. Accept and embrace change.

Change terrifies many people mainly because change is viewed as a threat to security. I'm sure you know what a comfort zone is? It's why so many resist change. However, in resisting change, 2 threats are posed. First, you miss an opportunity to broaden your horizons. An opportunity to grow has been presented. You could learn new skills, open yourself up to new experiences and develop your character. If you are to grow as an individual, embracing change is vital because change means growth. Secondly, in resisting change, you wrap yourself up in a cocoon and life passes you by. You don't grow, life stays the same and in doing so, you become stale. This can lead to great unhappiness as the years pass by. Do you want to look back on a safe, but ultimately stale, life?

3. In pursuing your dream, accept that risk is going to be a part of the whole process.

Nothing worthwhile has ever been achieved without exposure to risk. Yes, you may risk losing money, yes you may risk working long hours for little or no reward, yes you may risk ridicule, disapproval, rejection and of course, failure. But risk is EXCITING. Replace risk with a guarantee of certain success, without challenge, pain, or danger and well, how boring do you want your life to be? Think of this: How rewarding is it to achieve something worthwhile having overcome difficulties and negative people, and say: "I've done it!" Some feeling, yes? If you're frightened of taking even the smallest of risks, you're allowing your imagination to set boundaries on the happiness you can gain from life. But it will only do this if you let it.

4. This leads me nicely into one of the biggest fears we all share: The fear of failure.

But how bad is failure? If you wrap yourself up in a cocoon, hiding away from life in the pursuit of security, then you're guaranteed to fail because you haven't done anything. Conversely, if you get out there and give it a go, well sure, you're going to experience failure. There isn't one single achievement in human history that didn't involve failure – even a number of failures – before success came. Failure brings us the opportunity to learn. It's been said many times: "the only true failure is to quit" and that is the bottom line. Whatever happens to you, learn from it. Treat every experience as a stepping stone to your ultimate aims and failure will act as a driving force and not a brick wall.

5. Finally, have the courage to be the person you want to be.

You won't be a unique, fulfilled, joyously happy person living your dream if you decide to do what everybody else is doing. Be you. It doesn't matter how crazy, mad, dangerous or wacky your dream is. It is YOUR dream. It is YOUR life. YOU and only YOU can live it your way. Just because 2 million people do the same thing, it doesn't make it right FOR YOU. And doing things just because everybody else does them means we're more akin to sheep than unique individuals who express ourselves through our dreams. Why be like everybody else when you can be UNIQUELY YOU? You pass this way but once. You have a blank canvas on which to paint your life. Why paint the same picture everybody else is painting when you can paint your own unique masterpiece? You now have 5 ways to take you closer to your dreams. Why not give it your best shot? After all, what else have you got planned for the rest of your life? To YOUR future!

About the Author

Chris Green is the author of the new book "Conquering Fear," a special program which will show you how to conquer fear and attract greater happiness, success and prosperity into your life. You can learn more about this new book and purchase it at ConqueringFear.net

We must use time creatively, and forever realize that the time is always ripe to do right.
~ Nelson Mandela


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View From the
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“I’ve been alone most
of my life, even when
I was married, so it wouldn’t make much difference to me.”

Winter ghost town watchman Dave Davidson. The 48-year-old former lawman spends October through June looking out for the “living” ghost town of Silver City, Idaho. During the summer he offers horseback tours of the area to tourists.

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Resources for A Change

Attend Music School for Free!

Thanks to a $100 million donation from anonymous donor, Yale University’s School of Music will no longer charge graduate students the usual $23,750 tuition. Read more at Yale.edu/music/acad/finaidr.html

The Curtis Institute of Music in Philadelphia (Curtis.edu/html/10000.shtml) has been offering free tuition to talented young musicians since 1928.

Prosper From Your Music

I’m a big fan of Bob Baker’s. For over a decade now,
Bob has been producing resources to help musicians and other creative types to prosper. If you are (or know of) a musician looking to sell a lot more of your CDs, tapes, DVD, and music merchandise visit Bob at
Bob-Baker.com/af/ccgmmh.html